May 2012
76 posts
I wonder how I’m going to think of you when more time has weened us apart. Will I reminisce and frown at the songs that remind me of our early days, or will I roll my eyes and turn them off? Will the spots we went to when we first started kicking it together take me back to the days when we were off to wonderland every weekend, or will they just be parks I drive past without a second glance?...
I’d rather be by myself than kicking it with people I don’t like. I have no reliance on company.
People who post pictures and always seem to be talking about sex: if it means anything to you and you consider it something intimate and real between you and your boy or girl, you shouldn’t have to share your need or details with anyone but them.
I had a pretty good day! Although I didn’t get my iphone today like I was supposed to, I got a lot of other shit done. Had only one class this morning, my favorite, a humanities class. Then went to Valleyfair and got my nose pierced on a whim! I decided on the way to school that it was going to be a spontaneous day. I can’t believe I actually went through with it too- I literally...
“I regret that it takes a life to learn how to live.”
– Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close (via solitarywallflower)
It breaks my heart when I know shady shit is going on behind someone’s back within a couple and I see the oblivious one posting cute pictures of the two of them together, sigh.
For the longest time, I was with one boy or another and my life revolved around whoever it was that had me. I was young and had somehow gotten it into my head that a boyfriend is what I needed to feel complete. So I filled whatever void I felt in myself with the comfort of a boy to see every day, to phone with when we weren’t right next to each other, to talk until we KO, to spend every...
No one will ever care more for your problems than yourself- don’t look to others for your answers. There will always be people to help but no one else can give you security from any of your setbacks.
sonder
dictionaryofobscuresorrows:
n. the realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own—populated with their own ambitions, friends, routines, worries and inherited craziness—an epic story that continues invisibly around you like an anthill sprawling deep underground, with elaborate passageways to thousands of other lives that you’ll never know existed, in...
The key to having a stable lifestyle isn’t being extremely passionate or all logic, but to be able to balance the two. Don’t be too sensitive, but at the same time don’t be unmoving. Put all your emotion into something you really feel for but with good reason: be aware of at what point you need to move on.
It kinda puts me off when I see post after post of sex gifs and nasty shit on guy’s blogs. Not to bring up a cliché argument, but this is exactly why girls make it such a priority to fit into these standards of what it takes to be considered ‘fine’. Why are we so willing to put ourselves through shit to attract guys anyway? Would a guy go through the trouble of taking two hours...
“And so with the sunshine and the great bursts of leaves growing on the trees,...”
– The Great Gatsby (via whenfinallysetfree5)
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When was the last time you heard your boy Nas...
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Anonymous asked: Is your hair at all permed?
“Sometimes I can hear my bones straining under the weight of all the lives I’m...”
– Jonathan Safran Foer, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close (via wolfquoter)
I will learn to forgive, forget, and progress so I can make peace with my past.
I need to learn to forgive, forget, and progress or I’ll never make peace with my past.
Bought my Rock the Bells ticket today. Anyone going on Aug 25/26, I’ll see you there!
Anonymous asked: What kind of music do you listen to?
slamdunkyourhoe:
Slow Jamz Kanye West, Twista,...
loveher-right:
Still don’t give a shit, my...
Traits you do and don’t like in someone only become apparent after kicking it with them for a long enough period of time that secondary opinions and first impressions wear off. It’d be silly to deem someone relationship or butt buddy material before then. It’s been a long process learning that from experience.
“My mama said a lady ain’t what she wears, but what she knows.”
– Video, India Arie
My goal in life is not only to be successful enough to live lavishly, but to be independent. I want to provide for myself completely- yeah, a sugar daddy would be nice, but should he find another pretty face to run off to, I’ll to be able to hold my own. I won’t define myself by the man I’m with or the friends I’m associated with. I want each to enhance my life, but not be...
It’s not fair to question what you meant to someone or if they didn’t mean the things they said at the end of a relationship- things change with time and that’s something we have no control over. It’s more reasonable to be thankful for that change, eventually it wedged you two apart but also made you the most significant person in their life when you were originally...
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Discovery Channel > MTV
Empathy: (noun)
The intellectual identification with or vicarious experiencing of the feelings, thoughts, or attitudes of another.
The imaginative ascribing to an object, as a natural object orwork of art, feelings or attitudes present in oneself.